To replenish or not to replenish

Another question was presented to us at church this morning.

Do your actions replenish or deplenish ?

Nothing drains my energy more than someone that constantly complains . So when I
" complain " does that drain others ?

One should ask themselves "Does my "speech" show my love for Christ or does it cause one to stumble by letting them think that complaining is one attribute of being a Christian ?"

I don't know about you but I would much rather surround myself with people who edify as opposed to tearing down